Kany?d?n ("gift of a maiden") is a Hindu wedding ritual. and origination of this tradition yet not been established . There are different interpretations regarding kany?d?n across India (South Asia).
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Significance
Kanyadan mainly reveals that the wife is a form of Puru??rthas like Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha. The ritual makes the bridegroom to think that his wife is the most precious gift given by the god Vishnu and the bride to think that her husband is a form of Vishnu.[2]
Kany?d?n songs
In communities where kany?d?n is performed as part of the actual wedding, the ritual is carried out through a variety of kany?d?n songs. These songs may include the parents lamenting the loss of their daughter, as well as regretting their economic sacrifice for the wedding. Other songs focus on the groom, for example comparing him to the "ideal groom", the god Rama, in the epic Ramayana. Importantly, the kany?d?n ritual occurs right before the Sindoor ritual (sindurdan), which marks the bride’s symbolic loss of virginity.[3]
See also
- Vivaah
- Marriage in Hinduism