Youth V/S Parenthood!

Hello teens & parents,

This 21st generation has a lot of twist & turns mostly in youth's life.
Where one's goes into exploring the life and experiences more than what she expected. On the other hands, life totally depends on the way she overcomes all the circumstances or she ruins. She goes through a lot of situations and mistakes are done, but she learns more.
It's a fact that until the parents won't leave their child's finger for once, they will not get to know themselves and learn from their thoughts and mistakes. Their real mind and maturity starts from then.
But the main thing is, parents need to open themselves and talk more in front of their child, whether in case of their life values & problems, relationships, sex education etc, because today's youth are more towards being learning, being independent and free. If parents are only isolated and forces their old thoughts into them, doesn't talks much to them, then their child will keep themselves away from their parents, stop sharing things of their life, also in afraid of their parents they'll not disclose any serious matter to them and they will start keeping big secrets of life. Sometimes they'll sort their problems by themselves or it'll lead them into wrong turn, later on where parent's heart, reputation and sentiment gets hurt for those issues.
In many families, the child goes through such situations where she hesitates to ask for money, because their parents only talks about money spends on her, being independent and more. In this case, the child starts to bear of her own, spends less even if it's important(health or others),also due to it sometimes she also creates debts in high amount instead of asking money from their parents which can also create problem in life. So, parents need to create a balance here with their child which is mostly ignored. They should talk freely with them about their earning and problems, tell their child about the importance of money, spending , savings and necessity of balance in life, even also fulfilling the wants of their child in proper time. Sometimes the child thinks that their parents only creates excuses whenever she ask for anything, which create hatred towards them, so again talk freely with them and with proper reasons make them understand. Don't think them as a kid always and give them unnecessary reasons or excuses. Dear, they're growing!

Instead of making them feel as a burden, scolding them & prove them wrong always. Try to understand them, thinking a bit by their mindset, thoughts and age. Most probably parents should remember whatever you're doing , you do it for your child, how much you earn at least a thousand or lakh. Your child will only be dependent upon you until settlement, don't let them depend upon others, it can create situations where she can take big steps in order to be independent. How much time and money you'll spend in your child, in future they'll be your best assets.
Also, keep in mind that your child is now a teen, she is growing. I know sometimes it's tough for parents to be free and thinking that they are your small kids but reality is they are grown up and for their better life, be their friend, freely talk to them, let them experience things with you. As you also know, how much you'll stop them or ignore things from them, their curiosity will grow more and they'll go for it. Therefore, don't let their curious mind grow much and openly answer them everything. Be there for them always, make them feel all of it.
Basically, today's teenage is a troublesome but new parenthood is that main part which can make their life better and sorted, and yeah! Parents should always remember one more thing that in this journey you will also learn a lot of things from your child too. So, don't let them feel down.

Hopefully, my experiences and thoughts will help you to get out of your problems, only if you'll apply it, and set yourself 'Go Free Life.'

Thought of the day- " Today's youth is a fire, but their parents can only be

that water which'll let them cool."

Editor: Abantika Paul Purkayastha Added on: 2020-05-10 22:26:31 Total View:317