Loosing Individuality! A Silent Killer

Loosing Individuality! A silent Killer

^{No two individuals are created the same by God,every individual has different traits,personality,looks,habits,etc,then how do people in relationships expects each other to do exactly what they want and what they say,people these day lose a piece of themselves when they are engulfed in a relationship.}

^{Relationship might look all flowery and attractive from outside but it holds a lots of responsibility as one steps into it,there is a famous saying “all that glitters is not gold”, Relationships are a beautiful thing,you find a person who loves you and accepts you as you are,but as time passes by and gradually people start to understand that what looked so flowery in the beginning holds lots of responsibilities. Maintaining ones own personal life strengthens the relationship and a good and strong relationship is one that supports your dreams and aspirations and never pulls you down.}

^{Anjali says,”I recall the day I was married,I was told by elders that my husband is my only friend from now on, got a major shock when I heard this as how could I leave my own friends,my own family,who have made me what I am today.}

^{Teenagers these days believe spending 24x7 with their partners would make their relationships strong,forgetting their own hobbies,interests,ambitions and every other relation,this might strengthen their relationship but they lose their individuality.A person is unique themselves and has its own personality and abmitions and the person who we are in a relationship initially loved us for the person we were,for our individual habits,personality and hobbies.}

^{Sasha states,”I agree it feels very special and loved to always be with the person you love but after a certain time it would become boring because there will be no thought of missing that person.”}

^{People are afraid of losing one another in a relationship,they fear that they are not good enough and the other person might leave them,this is just because lack of self worth and self esteem,when a person will be confident themselves they might not have a fear of someone dumping that person.The very first relationship a person has is with himself/herself,a person should love themselves first and the secondary love is given to the partner,if there is no self love a person might always have fear and will always have a low self esteem.}

^{Maya shares,”I was in a relationship for 3 years and I completely lost myself for that person because I loved her very much,I lost my individuality and lost my interest in everything,yet our relationship did not last long,that day I realized I will love myself first and then any other person and I would never lose my individuality and the person who will truly love me will stick by me no matter what.”}

^{Initially in a relationship you start feeling that you are the best version of yourself and you are empowering as a individual yourself,but once the dream bubble is popped you realize that you miss the real self,you start wondering “where did I put the real self.”People forget that two people in a relationship are like your two different hands,they have different work,they have different uses,if they start doing the same thing life would be different same are relationships they are two different people,with different aspirations but in the end they stay together.}